Responsibility and fault

Welcome.

Responsibility is the prerequisite for freedom--- Myles Munroe.

Responsibility and fault are sequential words. One comes as a result of another. One is burried as a result of another that has received justice. If there are no wrongdone.., misdeeds or fault, nobody will be accused of not taking responsibility. Blames only comes when there errors or faults. Blaming others doesn't change the outcome of what has been done or left undone in the past that resulted into faults. Faults sometimes may not be attributed to people, it may be due to genetics (eg human height, human facial achitecture etc), it may be due to mother nature (eg loosing your investment(s) such as the real estate to eartquake, tsunami etc). At these times, who do you blame?

We cannot change the seasons, or the wind or circumstances but we can change ourselves, we can change what we do --- Jim Rohn.

Tidbits of taking responsibility about what has happened:

1) Never pitty yourself,

2) Accept & embrace yourself the way you are,

3) Learn from the experience.

How do we learn from past experience good or bad?:

a) Objectively diagnose what happened as if you are a third party watching a movie.

b) List out everything you should have done differently.

C) Give the experience under consideration a title (Topic).

d) Buy books on the new title identified in step (c) above.

e) If there is a need to share experience and seek for an advise, (or if analysing the situation is difficult for you). Choose somebody who is

i) is not dependent on you finantially,

ii) a confirmed religious leader who has track record of telling people the truth,

iii) a family member who will not tell you lies.

f) Neveral allow the feeling of what happened to disturb Your mind

Till next time when we shall be reading a new episode, remember to always get better and become the best version of yourself.

Thank you.